Build a next-steps plan
Answer what applies. This turns a flagged conversation into an ordered plan: who to contact first, what to say, what to avoid, and the support lines for your country.
Here is where to start
A fixed set of rules, not a model
This tool does not call an AI model. It runs your answers through a fixed set of if/then rules written in advance, the same seven inputs always produce the same plan. That matters here more than flexible wording would.
You answer seven short questions
What was flagged, how urgent it feels, how it came up, your living arrangement, whether the teen knows, existing support, and your country.
The urgency and support answers set the track
Nine fixed combinations of urgency and existing support decide who to contact first, from "call today" to "mention it at the next session."
The signal type and situation shape the rest
The category decides what to watch for next, and how it came up and whether the teen knows shape the what-not-to-do-first notes.
Your country adds the right support line
A short, named list, not a search result. If your country is not listed, you get the general pattern to look for instead.
This is a starting point, not a substitute for a professional who can see your specific situation. If there is any chance of immediate danger, that comes before anything on this page.
Three saved situations
Load one to see a finished plan without entering anything yourself.
Three small tools, one worry
Built after reading about a teenager who died after an AI chatbot walked him through how to harm himself. AI safety teams optimise heavily for engagement. Someone should be building for the parent left holding the phone afterwards.
Duty of Care
Paste in a chat, get back a soft-language read on three signals: physical safety, emotional tone, and trust and boundaries. No sign-in, nothing stored.
How to Bring It Up
The parent side of the conversation itself: an opener, what to avoid, a fallback if they shut down, and when to get professional help.
What Happens Next — this tool
For once a signal is confirmed: who to contact first, what not to do in the first hour, and the support lines for your country.